It's Worth The Wait

I'm a type of person that learns a lesson not only through my own personal life experiences but I also learn by watching others. I believe that there is a reason why God sets boundaries. He doesn't set them to keep you or I from having fun but to rather protect us. Everything has some sort of boundary around it, so we shouldn't step over that boundary. When we do step over, we are putting ourselves into danger and heartache. One thing that God has given us boundaries on is sex. God created sex to be good. He created sex for a husband and wife in marriage. Not before marriage, not with a "lover", multiple people, or etc. Only for a married man and woman. The reason why I am writing this blog is because I have seen the hurt in many people who have stepped out of those boundaries, whether it was up to them or not. I don't judge them, I pray for them. I don't think I am a better person because I am waiting until I am married before I have sex, because I have my own struggles and I haven't been tempted by sexual temptations. Sex was created to be good, it was created to bring a bond between a husband and a wife. It wasn't created for evil purposes. But what do you mean? How is sex evil?

• People are being sold and abused to satisfy someone's "needs".
• It's creating these bonds that should never have been created.
• I believe that all children (no matter how they were conceived) are blessings, but what is evil is when that child is aborted because the parents weren't ready or when a parent chooses not to be apart of that child's life.
• What is evil is when girls and even some guys, believe that the only way they can receive love is to give themselves away.
• It's evil when young children are being raped and molested for someone else's pleasure.
• Sex is evil when it used to manipulate someone  to believing that there only worth and value comes from performing for others.

My heart is sad for those who have fallen in this trap. I am not judging, because it is not my job and I have made my own mistakes. However, I want you to know that I do love and care for you way to much to see you hurting. Despite what you or I have done, God loves us with an everlasting love. He wants the best for you and I. He doesn't want you to stay stuck where you are, He'll help you. The crazy wonderful awesome thing about God is that He is the God of new beginnings of every day, every hour, every minute and every second, because of Jesus, we are a new creation! We are overcomers, we don't have to let our past define who we are.